SECRET NLP TRICKS TO MAKE HER OBSESSED

So when you know how to put yourself inside those three things?
Yeah. She’s done. She’s thinking about you while brushing her teeth, at work, on a date with someone else — doesn’t matter.

And no, this isn’t manipulation.
It’s literally how connection works when you know what you’re doing.

So let’s start.

1. FUTURE IMPRINTING

(put yourself into her future without forcing anything)**

This one is stupidly easy.
You just talk like certain things are already happening.

“Next time we go there…”
“When I take you to Greece…”
“When I’ll introduce you to my friend Ben... You’ll love him.”

That’s it.
Not marriage. Not big promises.
Just small pictures that her brain immediately starts filling in.

And here’s the part men always miss:
Women fall for the future they can imagine with you.
Not for you.
For the story of you.

So the moment she sees you in that story?
It’s basically a soft promise.
Her brain starts preparing for a second date, a third date, whatever.
Because it already feels like a done deal.

But you need to read her a little.
You don’t create your dream future.
You create hers.

If she’s artsy, talk about museums.
If she’s sporty, talk about hiking.
If she loves travel, talk about food in Greece.

Make it enticing for her, not for you.

2. PRIVATE WORLD LANGUAGE

(your own micro-universe she can’t forget)**

This one is powerful as hell.
You create a tiny world that exists only between the two of you.

An inside joke.
A phrase she hears only from you.
A nickname you casually give her.
A word you repeat enough times that it becomes… yours.

People get addicted to private worlds.

Let me give you a real story.

Years ago, I dated this guy.
He had the number 32 everywhere.
Boat 32.
Phone case 32.
His passwords had 32.
He’d point at random places and say, “Look — 32.”

I finally asked him what the hell that number meant.
And he told me a story about his mom, who had passed, and why 32 was connected to her.

It was simple, it was personal, it was real. And after that? I started seeing 32 everywhere. Street signs. Apartment doors. Receipts.

And every time I saw it?
Boom.
Thought of him.

We haven’t been an item for years. Doesn’t matter. I still see 32 and think of him for a second.

That’s how strong this trick is.

3. EMOTIONAL ANCHORING

(make her brain tie a moment to you forever)**

Anchoring is basically creating a memory tattoo.

If she’s eating sushi, you say:

“Every time you eat sushi now, you’re gonna think of this moment, right?”

The ‘right?’ at the end is important.
Because she needs to answer — yes or no.
Her brain needs to participate.

Once she responds — done. Her mind stamps that moment like a file. The cool thing is - it doesn't even matter what she said, all the work has been done.

Use it anywhere:

You’re walking with her? Touch her hand lightly and say: “I hope you don’t bring every guy here. But even if you do, every time you come, you’ll still think of me, right?”

You’re laughing about something? “Now every time you hear that song, you’ll remember this. Right?!”

You basically override old memories and put yourself in the center.
Her brain will automatically come back to you.

4. PULL HER INTO YOUR SPACE

(body memory imprint + sexual tension)**

Say this with calm confidence:

“Come closer.”

Then wait.
Let her step in.

When she does, you gently fix her hair behind her ear. Look her in the eyes. Smile a little and say:

“See? I don’t bite.”

Then change the subject like nothing happened.

She will replay this moment for DAYS. Women store physical memories inside the body and this one sticks.

Plus, you’re testing something:
Will she follow your lead?
If she does — massive sexual tension.
If she doesn’t — she’s not into you like that yet.

Either way, the imprint is there.

5. THE UNFINISHED STORY

(the trick every woman hates because it ALWAYS works)**

This is evil, but in a fun, harmless way.

You start telling her something interesting… and right before the good part, you stop.

“Actually, I’ll tell you the rest next time.”

She’ll immediately go:

“What? Why? Tell me now!”

Don’t answer. Just smirk and switch topics.

Here’s why this works:

The human brain HATES unfinished stories. It will try to complete the circle on its own. That's how your unfinished moment becomes a tiny obsession.

And now?
You have a built-in reason for the next date.
And the one after that.
And the one after that.

You basically turned yourself into a walking cliffhanger.