From Zero Dates to Unlimited Options
(The Step-by-Step Plan That Actually Works)

Let’s start here: dating is marketing.

If you want to meet someone amazing, you first need visibility. Reach. Awareness. In marketing terms, that means collecting leads.
In dating terms, that means creating exposure — women who know you exist, have seen you, maybe went on one or two dates with you, even if nothing serious came out of it.

Because the truth is: to meet “the one,” you’ll need to meet a lot of almosts. You’ll have to kiss some frogs. That’s not failure — that’s funnel building.

Step 1: Know Your Dating Tools

Every man has at least five powerful dating tools available. The difference between guys who struggle and guys who thrive is that the second group actually uses them.

Tool #1: Dating Apps
They’re tricky — only about 10% of men get 80% of the attention. But if you know how to position yourself, you can be one of them.
(Quick disclaimer: my clients use dating apps like pros — you can learn more about that https://ladakain.com/coaching )

Tool #2: Friends and Family
Ask around. Seriously. About 80% of couples met through mutual connections. Don’t just casually mention it — harass your network (nicely). Let people know you’re open to meeting someone new.

Tool #3: Real-Life Approaches
This one separates the men from the boys. Go out. Approach. Get rejected. Repeat. Think of it like a job, not an emotional rollercoaster. Every “no” gets you closer to a “yes.”

Tool #4: Social Media
It can be a pain in the ass, but it’s where everyone is. Done right, it gives you access and insight. Women’s profiles are goldmines of information about what they value and how they connect.

Tool #5: Events and Experiences
Charity galas. Art openings. Fitness retreats. Upscale networking events. Yes, they can be pricey — but they’re full of quality people who actually have something going on in their lives.

Step 2: Make the Tools Work Together

Knowing the tools means nothing if you don’t use them strategically.

Create a plan.
Use multiple channels every week.
Track what gives you results — and double down on that.

If 80% of your dates come from 20% of your efforts, focus on that 20%.

Stop wasting time swiping endlessly without meeting anyone. Stop “chatting” with women for weeks who never meet up. That’s not dating — that’s procrastination.

Be intentional. Be efficient. Treat your dating life like a skill you’re actively mastering.

To make this happen in real life, allocate just one focused hour per day to your dating efforts. Think of it as your “dating practice routine”:

Monday: reach out or engage with women on social media — stories, comments, DMs.
Tuesday: swipe and create new matches on dating apps.
Wednesday: ask friends and family if they know someone to introduce you to.
Thursday: go out to a bar or lounge and meet people in person.
Friday: go out again to a different spot or social event— keep your momentum going.
Saturday: daytime approaches — cafés, parks, bookshops, casual conversations.
Sunday: follow up, reply, and schedule dates for the upcoming week.

Consistency beats intensity. One hour a day done intentionally will outperform months of passive swiping or waiting for something to happen.

Step 3: Build Momentum

By the time you finish reading this, you should have a simple goal: book at least two to three new, exciting dates every week.

That’s how you build social proof, confidence, and options. And when you have options, everything changes — including how women respond to you.

You stop chasing.
You start choosing.

And that’s when dating becomes effortless — not because women changed, but because you did.